Resources

 

Welcome to this little library of inspiration and support.  These are some of the teachers, trainings, and tools that have shaped my path—and may support yours.

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Consent and Empowerment

• The Wheel of Consent – Free Videos
  Betty Martin’s work is a foundational pillar in the field of somatic sex education. Her free online resources and her book, The Art of Receiving and Giving, offer beautifully clear frameworks for understanding touch, choice, and consent.

 

Intimacy Education and Erotic Embodiment

• Intimacy Educator Training with Caffyn Jesse
  A transformative program for learning how to share erotic touch with skill and heart.
  Explore more of Caffyn’s visionary work on Sacred Intimacy, Transformative Justice, Queer Ecology, and Psychedelic Medicines.

• The 3 Keys to Genital Dearmouring – Rahi Chun
  An excellent online course focused on creating safety within the nervous system and reclaiming authentic sovereignty and sexual autonomy.

 

Sexual Health and Body-Based Resources

• Male Pelvic Floor Health – Jeff Gibson
  A deeply informative and practical website for understanding male pelvic floor health.

• Maze Men’s Sexual Health Blog
  An extensive collection of articles on male sexual health, written with clarity and care.

• OMGYes
  An interactive, research-based platform exploring the specific ways women experience sexual pleasure—through honest videos and tactile learning tools.

• Beducated
  An online learning platform with over 80 expert-led courses on sexual health, pleasure, and intimacy.

• The Gender Book
  A fun, colorful, and accessible introduction to gender diversity—like the Magic School Bus of gender education. Free download available!

 

Practitioner Directories

• Trusted Bodywork
  An international platform featuring sex counselors, certified tantra massage practitioners, and sex coaches.

• Sacred Eros
  A global directory of Tantra and Sacred Sexuality professionals.

 

Self-Esteem Building Process (A Personal Practice I Love)

I call this a self-esteem building process because, for me, it was one of the single biggest factors in shifting my internal landscape from self-criticism to self-celebration.

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It’s simple and gentle:

• Reflect regularly (maybe 2–3 times a week for a month or so) on your personal strengths, joys, and moments of pleasure.

• There’s no pressure to do it perfectly—or even every day. The beauty is in noticing, over time, how much you’ve grown.

• If it’s helpful, here’s an example from a day in my life​​​​