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Work with Me

Connect with your body.  Expand pleasure and joy.  Experience transformation and healing in your relationship with yourself and others. 

 

I provide a safe, welcoming, and judgment-free space for you to explore your desires, receive nurturing and support, and bring greater intimacy, pleasure and joy into your life.  ​Working with me is kind of like hiring a personal trainer or fitness coach.   We work together to help you build the skills that lead to greater embodied presence and self-confidence, so you can live more fully in your body, to create a more pleasure-filled, turned-on life!  

Co-create your own transformative journey.  Move at the pace of trust with your body ..... explore the deeper needs and issues behind what's holding you back .... release what you no longer need .... identify and reach for what you desire.  

Your journey starts with your intentions:  What do you desire?  What would you like to shift or release?   Based on your intentions, our work together will unfold. Your body will be our primary place of contact, and we will tune in to your inner experience and sensations with curiosity and care.  

 

Each session begins with a gentle transition into our time together, with grounding or a body scan, and checking in with your body and mind about your intentions for that session.  We'll create your unique practice that is grounded in enthusiastic consent, and includes trauma-informed touch and pleasure-focused healing.  Working in this way allows for shifting of patterns and releasing of long-held constrictions and tension that limit or block pleasure.   Each session includes time for stillness, for your body to savor and integrate the experience and deepen the new neural grooves you are creating.

Session Levels

I offer various levels of sessions, depending on your intentions and what feels safe in your body.    As safety and trust grow, we can explore deeper levels of intimacy and vulnerability and access higher levels of pleasure and expansion.  

Level One - safety, discovery, and presence.  We focus on discovering you and your relationship to your own body and to other people.   With caring and gentle presence, we'll explore questions such as: What was early life like?  What kinds of messages and beliefs did you hear about pleasure, sex and relationships?  Are there deep wounds or blocks that need healing?   If so, we'll move really slowly, using gentle inquiry and nurturing and nourishing touch (if that feels safe) to help support your body in releasing holding patterns that no longer serve you, and bringing life force energy back into places it shut off to keep safe.

 

We'll explore noticing sensations in your body, and talk about desires and pleasure.  Is it hard to notice or ask for what you want?    We may play games around communication, platonic touch and boundaries.

 

​We'll explore the basic somatic practices of breath, sound, movement and touch, to help calm your nervous system, expand your sense of safety, and awaken awareness of sensations in your body.     We'll use clear language around touch, using the Wheel of Consent, and practice noticing how it feels to give and receive touch with clarity around who the touch is for (a game changer!).   You can listen to Betty Martin, the creator of the Wheel, talk about this here:  https://bettymartin.org/videos/

Level Two - choice and voice.   We put those new communication and relating skills together with the somatic skills, to provide you safe opportunities to notice what you want, ask for it, and receive it (within my boundaries).  This process is profoundly healing, unwinding the wounds caused by neglect, not being able to ask for what you want, and not having your needs and desires tended to.    Activities can include any activities from level one, along with body mapping, bossy massage (where you are in charge of everything that happens!), self pleasure coaching, genital steaming, pelvic dearmouring, and erotic massage.  Touch is primarily from me to you, as I guide you in learning more about your body, noticing and asking for what you want, and accessing pleasure as a healing resource.  

Level Three - connection and play.   Here is where we bring all these relating and somatic skills together, to explore your deepest intentions for your relationships with yourself, your body, and with others.   Continuing our focus on safety and consent, we explore what boundaries would support your continued learning and expansion.     This is Sacred Intimacy.   Two-way touch can be profoundly healing, supporting the release of shame and judgement, and allow you to develop your capacity to give and receive exquisitely attuned touch.   We'll create embodied experiences of empowerment, to help you better know yourself, and explore how you can offer focused, loving presence to another person.  

 

I'll teach you about the anatomy of arousal, and  the many ways to offer touch for pleasure.  We can play together and explore deeper intimacy.  This is a journey into becoming a masterful lover.  

Session Types

 

Transformation often begins around or after the third session, and I encourage to give yourself at least three sessions, so that you can experience profound healing and expansion.  

  • In-person sessions near Nyack, NY.  I recommend starting with three sessions (the first one 3-hours, the next ones 2- or 3-hours), and offer a special rate for a three-session package.

  • Personal retreats.  A series of at three or four sessions with me in Nyack, NY  over two or three days, with space and time in between for savoring and integration.  Experience deep transformation in a remarkably short amount of time.  

  • Online coaching sessions. I recommend starting with three 90-minute sessions.

 

I offer reparative pricing for BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, and disability community members, with a sliding scale down to 2/3 of my standard rates.   I offer reparative pricing in the hope of encouraging systemic amends to communities who actively experience violence, oppression, and economic disparities.  

Disclaimer:  While I am attuned to your needs and shower you with caring and love during sessions, and we can definitely enjoy ourselves, this is NOT a girlfriend or escort experience.  We are co-creating a consensual environment for your learning and benefit.  

What to learn more?  Set up a complimentary 20 minute zoom chat, where you can talk about what's going on for you, and feel into whether it feels right to work with me.

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Questions?   Check out the FAQs page, or set up a complimentary zoom call to talk about what you want and feel into whether I'm a good fit for you  

 

Butterfly photo by Håkon Grimstad on Unsplash 

Top photo by Barry Carl

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